When we immerse ourselves in memories, we lose touch with the present. The brighter the memory, the more happy our past seems, but one day these memories turn into hatred and then we lose the ability to move forward into the future. Heavy chains - the name of which is revenge, bind our hearts. Tears of sorrow fill our eyes...
There are no absolute values. The choice is yours. Choose for yourself what to value in this life. After all, the greatest luxury given to man is the ability to build a whole world on the foundation of stupid decisions.