Book: 7 dialogues for love for life

When two people are connected in a strong and reliable relationship, it affects not only these people. Responsiveness and love extend to our whole life, as circles on the water surface disperse from a thrown stone. Relationships based on love empower us to care more about others and empathize with them.

All the romantic clichés about love are even more true than you can imagine. Those who experience this feeling are indeed more free, energetic and productive.

attention. Understanding your own needs for affection and satisfying the same needs of a partner is the key to love to the grave,

Lasting passion in love is more than possible. The ardent passion of the first stage of the relationship is just a prelude. And a strong love relationship, when the partners have already adjusted to each other and entered into resonance, is a symphony.

Letting go of resentment is very important. But only those partners who see and understand the essence and causes of their pain are able to forgive. And they know that a loved one is near and feels their spiritual wound.

The key moments of rapprochement, when one takes a step forward, and the other answers, require courage, but magically transform the relationship.

Everyone overreacts sometimes. We lose our balance and fall into a state of anxious control, or we become numb and drift away. The main thing is not to stay in this mode forever. It will be very difficult for a partner to reach you in this case.

Emotions tell us what we want and what we need. You need to listen to your feelings and be guided by them.

There are no explicit causes and effects in relationships, there are no straight lines. Only a vicious circle that partners create together. We pull each other into loops and spirals of convergence and separation.

It is impossible to achieve the ideal either in love or in bed. The fanatical pursuit of perfection is a dead end. The main emotional presence.

Emotional balance, calmness and pleasure are the benefits of love. Fleeting hobbies and one-night stands are a consolation prize for losers.

There are very few ways to cope with pain if the need for intimacy is not satisfied.

Emotional hunger is a reality. The feeling of emotional isolation, rejection or abandonment provokes pain on the emotional and physical levels and causes panic.

We are the story of our attachments.