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When you look back, some excesses are tempting to be edited, like an unsuccessful sentence in a text, or deleted altogether. It seems that if you deny their presence, it will be easier to move on. But this not only creates knots in the soul, but also stops. It is possible to physically move between events and countries, notice how the reflection in the mirror ages, and the number of candles on the birthday cake increases over the years - but still be at the age and place when the mental trauma began. Personal collapse is akin to death. And without all the stages of grief, it is impossible to cope with this episode and overcome it. Both the death of a loved one and the murder of some part of oneself - as a rule, this is an innocent element of the essence - is accepted along with tears and anger. You can’t just keep something good and throw away the bad - it’s all intertwined. One thing leads to another. Or you cut off your past completely and pretend that it didn’t exist at all, and thereby cut off a piece of your life. Or you accept everything. At the same time, it is worth remembering: by avoiding pain, you are running away from the future.
- Well, this anchorage is just right for me. I'll live here for a while... Apchhi! Rum, pork belly and scrambled eggs, that's all I need.
Can you remember the happiest day of your life? And the saddest? Have you ever thought that sadness and joy go hand in hand? It turns out a rich purple-purple feeling, not good or bad, but quite strong, simply because you don’t have to live on only one side.
Rather than bad silver, copper is better; it is better not to have a bad friend; than from corrupt and unfaithful friends, it is easier to endure insult from enemies.
Quote Explanation: A referent is an object of extra-linguistic reality implied by the author of a particular speech segment. The referent of a certain speech segment may belong not only to the real world, but also to the imaginary one.
Even handing over your own partner to another man, which is the most excruciating and painful experience imaginable, is much more bearable than not being able to separate from her.
Quote Explanation: The “mother figure” for a narcissist can be a mother or a father.
I’d rather be naive than treacherous, it’s better to see the good in people than the bad!
- Yes, I am sure!
“Really? Every person carries his own world in his heart. Anyone who has seen only bad things in the past will not find anything good here. On the contrary, those who know how to value friends will find good people here too.”
What kind of people live here?White-white December. And so magical. He will embrace us with his comfort and mood the color of vanilla snow, he will dust off all the bad things, he will wrap the earth in a fluffy shawl, he will beautifully decorate our houses, he will quietly look into the windows, and he will give a piece of hope into the hearts of lonely people, he will light the fire in the family fireplace brighter, he will make the children laugh, and we, It will make adults a little closer to childhood. It will just give miracles...
December, I love you for your courage. For the feeling that I can do anything. For believing in miracles.
Snow, snow... flies like delicate swan feathers, falls slowly and quietly, covers everything bad, ugly, cleanses the earth, houses, souls of people. And some kind of light sadness, and joyful and a little lonely, but you are not afraid to be alone in this deafening silence. Because snow, snow...
... Let’s make some tea from a bouquet of summer dried herbs and just sit. Girl, how have you lived all this time? What has this year been like for you? What kind of people surrounded you? Thank everything good, leave everything bad like old flying leaves. If you don’t see results, don’t blame yourself, don’t rush to take stock quickly. They are there, even if they are hidden in your small steps, in the rustling of quick, but still very timid gestures. After all, no matter how much of a perfectionist you are, you still move forward. And let’s melt the ice of distrust in life with your wide childish smile. Decorate the Christmas tree, bake gingerbread cookies, hang garlands. Finally, buy yourself a beautiful dress. Also, be sure to finish one project that is important to you. Write. Draw. Take pictures. Dance. Sculpt. Just do your favorite thing, burning and charging others with your love. Push off harder and jump up to the stars, to new opportunities. And then take them and jump over them to fly to new galaxies. And don't be afraid of anything. Where there is fear, there is also ambition. And if you don’t feel a trembling in your body, if you don’t feel dizzy, then you haven’t set high enough goals for yourself. Believe in your strength, believe in yourself. And no matter how scratched your soul is, and no matter how often you have stumbled before, believe in people. And, above all, believe in this World. Everything will definitely come, because you deserve it. You deserve to be the happiest girl in the whole wide world. ...
All bad things come to an end.
Misfortune into happiness.
