Haruki Murakami. The Princess that is no more (№ 311465)

Different indulgence and pocket money is not yet a decisive factor in that child spoiled. Most importantly: who is responsible for ensuring that the child is not irradiated with all kinds of deformed emotions, ripening in surrounding adults. If all departed from this responsibility and the child sees around touching one person, then the child is definitely spoiled. This is how strong the UV rays that fry naked body on the midday summer the beach is gentle, the newborn ego irreparable harm. That's the main problem. And that child spoil or give too much money is just incidental, collateral item.