Jagga Vasudev (Sadhguru). (№ 373166)

You are under the influence of the illusion that you are only half life and you need the other half. No. Your life is full.
If you come out as a full life, get - your relationship will be different, light. They will aim to unite, to share and not to receive.
To change your relationship must change you. And you have provided an excellent opportunity for this. Don't say "I've changed", say "I was being pushed from illusion to reality". This man helped me to realize that you live in illusion, otherwise you would have all realized it just before he died.