Tatiana V. Chernigovskaya. (№ 373764)

Success in the education of children and the stability of their psyche is directly dependent on what you really want parents to see their children happy or to realize their own ambitions at his expense.
The child should receive the full range of possibilities, and then, perhaps, he himself, and his teachers, and parents to be clear that this is useless, nothing will come of it. Here I would like to do accountant ― I would have drowned in the river at the beginning of the training. I am absolutely unable to do so, but capable of other things.
If the child is hard to push, this will eventually end badly for him ― he is deeply unhappy, the parents imposed and alien occupation or profession will still throw, but lose a few years of life.
Why breaking something over his knee? And even more ― your child? ... You should look into it who he is. You want him happy or you want your ambitions to satisfy? Then it's another problem. That means you're a cannibal and you do not mind your own child to eat