Emelyanova E. C. Say goodbye to depression, or How to get rid of problems (№ 437016)

Indeed, we may want to help a loved one in his problems, but not so that he should show you the same love in return, but so that he feels good.] If you take on his problems, and he throws all the burden of his responsibility on you, using you, not loving you - this is your problem: it is impossible to dump your responsibility on another person if he does not take it.