Franz Wertvollen. Shot of Life (№ 445720)

You show tenderness because you want to show the tenderness you feel for the child. The child must be able to do the same. Not - “Tell me how you love your mother. Come here, kiss your dad!" you kiss your mom, dad, grandma, grandpa - anyone - when you have the urge to show that tenderness. Not because you were forced, but because you yourself wanted to do something good.