Book: My child with pleasure goes to kindergarten

No penalties to do is difficult. Somehow we have to build a border when the words do not lead to the desired result. but the punishment in any case must not be a threat to the health of the child, physical or psychological. It should encourage the child to reflect on their behavior, instead of waking up in him a feeling of pain and shame. punishment should not humiliate point. Ideally, the punishment should be the natural consequence of the act.