Author of quotes: Anna Bykova

Everything that strengthens the child's conviction that he is the best and should be the very first is wrong. Some mistakenly believe that this is how high self-esteem is formed. No, this is how a neurosis is formed. Healthy self-esteem is not about “I am the best”, but about “I am good, I am valuable”, and this value is outside the hierarchy.

No penalties to do is difficult. Somehow we have to build a border when the words do not lead to the desired result. but the punishment in any case must not be a threat to the health of the child, physical or psychological. It should encourage the child to reflect on their behavior, instead of waking up in him a feeling of pain and shame. punishment should not humiliate point. Ideally, the punishment should be the natural consequence of the act.

Grandma, put it in my mouth Malinka, read loudly and RUB my heels.

Children are dependent and if it is beneficial to adults.