Anna Bykova. Secrets of calm "lazy mom" (№ 455090)

Everything that strengthens the child's conviction that he is the best and should be the very first is wrong. Some mistakenly believe that this is how high self-esteem is formed. No, this is how a neurosis is formed. Healthy self-esteem is not about “I am the best”, but about “I am good, I am valuable”, and this value is outside the hierarchy.