self-esteem [Theme]

Self-esteem is like an ear for music: when they call, I hear.

You don't have to like people. People don't have to love you. They don't even have to respect you! But when you look in the mirror, you better love what you see.

Without rational-critical thinking, a full life is impossible, because only thanks to it are possible a productive worldview, understanding of political and social processes, adequate self-esteem, reasonable goals and understanding of the realities of life.

From the lecture How

- No, Inna. You are suffering and you are in pain. But the problem is that you definitely need someone else to understand that you are worthy and good.

- So we are the same - we will not go to heaven, because you are bad, and I am not a person.

And when he feels like a nonentity, he needs to suddenly transfer this to someone to make it easier. When a narcissist sees that someone has a sincere, committed friendship, he needs to immediately say: Yes

A woman who paints her nails with red polish loses an average of three kilos. These are new sensations, the gait is immediately easier.

Everything that strengthens the child's conviction that he is the best and should be the very first is wrong. Some mistakenly believe that this is how high self-esteem is formed. No, this is how a neurosis is formed. Healthy self-esteem is not about “I am the best”, but about “I am good, I am valuable”, and this value is outside the hierarchy.

Inflated self-esteem is useful only in one case, in order to protect your dignity and honor.

self-confidence and overcoming fears are stronger than laziness ... self-esteem increases, which entails the fulfillment of any mission

If you have low self-esteem because of your appearance, just become prettier.

We are the artists of our fears, and the less self-esteem, the brighter their palette.

The lower the girl's self-esteem, the stronger her jealousy.