Tove Jansson. Magic winter (№ 22241)

And little my has flatly refused any mourning ribbons and bows.
If I grieve, I didn't need to show and wear there are different bows, she said.
- Yes, if you cry, - said Moomin-Troll. - But you do not grieve!
"No," said little my. I can't grieve. I only know how to be angry or to rejoice. But perhaps it will help if I get to grieve? But if I get angry on the Ice maiden, maybe I'll bite her someday in the leg. And then maybe she will take good care to tickle other baby squirrels for the ears only because they are cute and fluffy.