Jagga Vasudev (Sadhguru). (№ 365435)

Even the most terrible events can become a breeding ground, if you accept the following:
"I am responsible for what I am".
Then you can turn the greatest misfortune in the step for personal growth. If you take one hundred percent responsibility for what is happening today, there will be a brighter tomorrow.
But if you deny your responsibility for the present and blame it on parents, boyfriend, husband, fiancee or colleagues - it means you have renounced your future.