Lonely town. Exercises in the art of loneliness (№ 400604)

When people start experience of loneliness, they turn on, as it is called psychologists, sverkhplastichnost in relation to social threat is a phenomenon first described by Weiss in the 1970s. Unwittingly caught in this condition, people tend to perceive the world through a more negative concepts, and to expect and remember the rudeness, rejection and strife, to give them more weight than goodwill and friendliness. Because of this, of course, a vicious circle, lonely man deeper segregated is suspicious and naudime. And since sverkhplastichnost not perceived consciously, to recognize or to correct the bias extremely difficult. In other words, the more lonely a person becomes, the harder it is given to him the navigation of public waters. Loneliness was growing on it like mold or wool becomes a barrier to communication regardless of how much you need this relationship. Loneliness grows, spreads and feeds on itself. It is worth it to take root, it is incredibly difficult to uproot.