James Carol. Look at me (№ 450321)

We cannot be held responsible for the actions of others. If a wife is slapped and she shoots a husband with a gun, who beats her and drinks, who is to blame? Husband - because he got drunk? Gun manufacturer? Jack Daniel? You can blame anyone, but the bottom line is that it's her decision to take the gun and pull the trigger. She has a dozen other ways to deal with the situation in her arsenal, but choosing one of them is on her conscience.