Richard Bach. The Seagull named Jonathan Livingston (№ 94647)

Oh, Fletch, you don't love that! You don't love hatred and evil, of course. You have to practice and see the real gull, the good in every one of them, and to help them see it in themselves. That's what I mean by love.
You don't have to love mad flock of birds! You don't have to give love for hate and anger. You have to practice to see truly good Cup of tea in each of these birds and help them to see the same tea in them. That's what I call love.