Book: You like what you see.

... beauty is a drug you can't abstain, otherwise it would have all the time - literally - to spend with your eyes closed.

The only deviation from the middle that people consistently find attractive - the exaggeration of secondary sexual characteristics.

Maturity means seeing the differences, but be aware that they don't matter.

To be nice, essentially a passive quality; even when you're working on yourself, working to be passive.