Book: Center Hole

Each person, even if outwardly friendly and helpful, there is a dark side. Sometimes it is almost invisible to others, and often the person himself is surprised to find it in yourself, having made a fatal mistake. Some call it their inner beast. Someone he is stronger relatively "light" side (I say "relatively" because the concepts of good and evil relative), someone weaker. But the beast is for everyone.
People going through a difficult period, sometimes blame a beast. They say they can't cope with his dark side, that darkness is stronger than them. Most often, they are asked to help defeat the beast and kill him. The dark side prevents them from living, leads to terrible situations. A person can not cope with the urges of his beast, hurting others, and eventually yourself.
But the answer I give is always the same: the beast inside don't need to kill. Have to tame it and make an ally. So it does not bite man and his family. He ate only what he is given, and in a difficult situation would come to help. Yes, it's possible with the beast within can live in mutual benefits, creating a symbiotic relationship.
How to tame the beast? In different cases it is different. As with normal animals, the beast within - lots of families and types, and each one is unique. Consequently, each needs its own approach. This is the hardest work. First, the inner beast needs to be seen to appreciate its size, describe it, understand what he wants and what he breathes - and only then to tame.
There is only one strict rule: the beast needs to feed. Otherwise, the symbiosis will not work. If you do not feed the beast, it will eat you.
Listen to the inner beast. You know him better than he knows you. Feed it carefully so that it did not bite you finger. This beast must obey you, not you it. And then it will do you good.
If you properly tame the beast, he will give you strength when they seemingly nowhere to take. He will protect you and your loved ones and will cut the throat of the enemies when necessary. And this, unfortunately, is often necessary; life feeds on rosy and soft as the beast eats those who are not able to cope with it.

I used that too often not everything goes according to plan. Will the case much stronger than we think, and so I rarely say the words promises. Do not argue: much depends on ourselves. When we try to execute, we apply the efforts that have maximum to improve the probability of success. But this probability is very rarely one hundred percent (notice I did not say "never"). Even if we're going to do and, moreover, can emerge some subtle little thing that goes wrong.