Author of quotes: Dean To

When the lover realizes that partner more attractive than himself, the anxiety and excitement of courtship, masked happy, acquire an unpleasant flavor.

Power and authority wants to have everyone, though nobody likes to admit it all and not even realize it.

Romantic relationships are so loaded with desire for pleasure and fear of rejection that is almost impossible to maintain composure.

Lovers try to charm their partners and hope to bring them to such a state that a failure was unthinkable.

For excitement, fear, and altruism, courtship, as a rule, is a fundamental motive for such a nice behavior: the desire to gain emotional control over her lover.

The gifts that we give, and the money spend during courtship, let lovers feel examples of generosity and altruism. But, of course, they not only give, but receive love to give pleasure to someone you love. And there's nothing too selfish.

Falling in love, we are not beside ourselves, hiding the anger and pettiness. We have wit, charm and sense of humor, we at every opportunity emitted by a desire to help and support, sympathize, and approve.

Love is turning us into chameleons: without knowing it, we take the "color" of a loved one to demonstrate their ability to meet many special needs.

The best defense is a good offense.
Sometimes the partner, frightened by the prospect of failure and uncertainty, he prefers to end relationships at an early stage. So usually what people do, not experiencing the most stable period of life or are you still suffering from the collapse of the old Union. Grasping the role of "reject", the person immediately returns the power over you and gets rid of the anxiety of being rejected. However, he loses the chance to find true intimacy.

Theoretically, if the partner is moving away, logically, should try to avoid breaking up. But, investing a huge percentage of identity in beloved, the person resists this, and every symptom of cooling it ignites even greater passion. And passion tends to ignore bad signals and accept only the good.

The system of evaluation and transcripts of the behavior of the partner has one flaw: it works fine as long as the person is not too interested in relationships.

During courtship we try to defend ourselves, continuously assessing and deciphering the romantic behaviour of their elected representatives.

The survival instinct causes an irresistible desire to understand the real feelings of your partner, so invented ways to decipher the meaning of his words and deeds, searched for meaningful clues.

Love is able to bring to mind, but it rarely disables the fundamental instinct of emotional self-preservation.