Tom D'Ansenbur. Stop being good! How to stop adjusting to others and become happy (№ 411030)

Of course not, this is not "all" that prevents us from being ourselves. What gets in the way is how we ourselves "all this" see, how we experience our relationship. What prevents us from being who we are is that our needs for security and trust have not been given the proper attention to evolve and make it easier to experience "it all."