Book: Strawberry on the birch. Sexual culture in Russia

In many works of Soviet literature romantic first love, with her characteristic mismatch of sensual and tender desire, is erected in the universal norm. <...> Heroes of the cult film of Eldar Ryazanov "Irony of fate or With light steam" all the time from each other refuse.
"They act like pre-assured failure. Favorite Russian love - poor. In the course of going the slightest clue - friends-girlfriend, groom bride, flying for the window photos and tickets... But that is the purpose of the love game to sex not to get involved, to avoid it. Both of them are afraid to complicate their own, though not quite happy, but stable life. These behavioural attitudes rooted reason for their loneliness. Most of all they fear to take responsibility for another person... Lovely, lovely people Nadya and Zhenya preserved in a state of infantile autism. Can an independent person to allow the unfortunate affair last ten years? - such deeds are only those of all emotions prefers the boundless egoistic self-pity. Accessible and understandable to their relationship - the love of child to parent both of hero "living with mom". Such love requires not a sexual partner, but the teacher, who will porridge to feed and to wipe your nose, not outside, and conversation, of instruction" (Lunin, 1993).
"Indeed - the Builder of communism, and suddenly - fuck? Nipple hairs? Some convulsive movements, smells, seeming absolutely inappropriate sperm? And similarly: can the Russian intellectual in a living person's m... poke?" (Lustic, 1994).