Author of quotes: Igor Kon

Erotic fantasies of Homo - and heterosexuals often cross; between them there are significant differences. Heterosexuals imagine, in order of decreasing frequency, sex with a new partner, sexual violence, watching someone else's sexual activity, homosexual sex and group sex. Homosexuals often see the individual elements of male sexual anatomy (penis, buttocks, etc.), sexual violence, heterosexual sex, tender relationship with strange men and group sex.

The technique of gay sex are as diverse as heterosexual. The lack of same-sex couples the anatomical complementarity of genitalia kompensiruet high empathy, i.e. the ability to tune in to the emotional wave of a partner, to feel that that delivers pleasure and act accordingly. Imagine yourself in the place of someone of your gender is easier, it enriches the erotic repertoire of gays and lesbians, especially gay men on average are emotionally more sensitive than ordinary men.

Many people believe that gays can accurately recognize by their feminine appearance, high voice and soft manners, and lesbian - aggressive and muzhepodobiyu. This, of course, an illusion. Wholly "straight" can have a feminine appearance and high voice, and muscular body of the bodybuilder is to be the outer shell, hiding a self-conscious femininity and homoeroticism.

The risk of suicide among young gays and lesbians especially great if they are a) too early to openly reveal his homosexuality, b) are subjected in this respect to violence and harassment, in) trying to solve their problems with alcohol and drugs, and d) shunned by their families. These young people do not die from homosexuality, but from the fear of it and abuse others.

About sexuality of the poet himself there are many myths and unproven assumptions. Yesenin bragged about the number of "their" women, but his attitude towards most of them were quite cynical. Some who knew his people claimed that he never could love anyone deeply, although it was made to love him. This need to be loved extended to men, many of whom had fallen in love with has the rare, truly feminine charm, the poet. Esenin clearly preferred men's society women willingly slept with friends in the same bed, sharing with their tender letters and poems.

In many works of Soviet literature romantic first love, with her characteristic mismatch of sensual and tender desire, is erected in the universal norm. <...> Heroes of the cult film of Eldar Ryazanov "Irony of fate or With light steam" all the time from each other refuse.
"They act like pre-assured failure. Favorite Russian love - poor. In the course of going the slightest clue - friends-girlfriend, groom bride, flying for the window photos and tickets... But that is the purpose of the love game to sex not to get involved, to avoid it. Both of them are afraid to complicate their own, though not quite happy, but stable life. These behavioural attitudes rooted reason for their loneliness. Most of all they fear to take responsibility for another person... Lovely, lovely people Nadya and Zhenya preserved in a state of infantile autism. Can an independent person to allow the unfortunate affair last ten years? - such deeds are only those of all emotions prefers the boundless egoistic self-pity. Accessible and understandable to their relationship - the love of child to parent both of hero "living with mom". Such love requires not a sexual partner, but the teacher, who will porridge to feed and to wipe your nose, not outside, and conversation, of instruction" (Lunin, 1993).
"Indeed - the Builder of communism, and suddenly - fuck? Nipple hairs? Some convulsive movements, smells, seeming absolutely inappropriate sperm? And similarly: can the Russian intellectual in a living person's m... poke?" (Lustic, 1994).

I feel like a Zebra that has to explain why it is striped.

The label "homosexual" for understanding the life and work of poet A. as little as a certificate that the novelist B. was bald, and the artist Vladimir lame.

The trajectory of your personal fate is closely linked with the development path of your company.

In England in the early nineteenth century, even to ask a neighbor at table to pass the chicken leg was considered indecent because the word "leg" evokes sexual connotations.