Book: Faces and masks same-sex love: moonlight at dawn

Erotic fantasies of Homo - and heterosexuals often cross; between them there are significant differences. Heterosexuals imagine, in order of decreasing frequency, sex with a new partner, sexual violence, watching someone else's sexual activity, homosexual sex and group sex. Homosexuals often see the individual elements of male sexual anatomy (penis, buttocks, etc.), sexual violence, heterosexual sex, tender relationship with strange men and group sex.

I feel like a Zebra that has to explain why it is striped.