Science to be alive. The dialogue between therapist and patients in humanistic therapy (№ 395436)

Wine means the denial of our subjective center ("It's your fault that I..."). Even when I blame myself ("I was selfish to forget about it..."), I actually attribute to a certain cause to its property ("selfishness"), instead of having to really take responsibility. Responsibility, by contrast, remains focused on the action and its outcome ("Yes, I did it by choice. I'm sorry that I hurt you. How can we work together to fix it?"). Thus, responsibility is directed forward; it says that we have the power to act and achieve the best results. In this sense, opportunity is the reverse side of responsibility.