Book: The law of harmony within us

Who makes reality, excessive demands, for example, "You must love me", "I want to be admired," etc., he feels a sense of unbearable frustration and even a state of depression and fear, because reality never meets the increased requirements.

Reality exists unconditionally and uncompromisingly.

Any conflict also takes place in the present time. Every man is himself the cause of his conflicted state.

One installation aims to bring both partners, and the other to the preservation of the identity of each of them.

Heartfelt love, by contrast, focused on the other with a willingness to perceive and understand it. If, instead of willingness to understand the principle of love is the ability to adapt meekly to such an extent that criticism and identity completely suppressed, this love turns into a sentimental desire to hold on to anyone.

Who wants to take more than he needs, he is conceited.

Jealousy is not a proof of love, proof of the selfish claims of possession.

True love involves, above all, trust, full accountability and patient understanding of the identity of the other.

Fickle man really needs to get a sedative constancy. A fixed is to discover the richness, lies in the variability.

Authoritarian behavior is a compensation for weakness, insecurity and dissatisfaction.

Man must learn to perceive and to accept what others think. Conversely, people accustomed to perceive a strong effect, while excessively or slavishly admires adaptable, it is necessary to develop policy independence.

It is important to know: every disappointment, every frustration can be a key to the door of self-knowledge and therefore to their own maturity.

What is the situation if I consider it from my point of view - is subjective? And what is the situation if I view it objectively? To these two questions I found two different answers.

I have an inner alarm bell. It rings when I assess something as stupid, as vile or as bad taste. In the episodes I want to overcome my egocentric assessment, and exercise in objectification and samoreguliruemaya understanding.