Book: Marriage and its alternatives

Maybe I can come closer to what really exists deep inside me, sometimes anger, sometimes fear, sometimes love and care, sometimes beauty, sometimes force, sometimes rage, - without hiding these feelings from myself. Maybe I can learn to appreciate the richness and diversity of what I am. Perhaps I can openly be more of themselves. If so, I can live according to their own experiences values, although I know all the social norms. I can afford to be all this complicated set of feelings, meanings and values with my partner - be free enough, to give love, anger and tenderness as they exist in me. Then maybe I can be a real partner because I'm on my way to becoming to be a real person. And I hope that I can help my partner to follow their own path to their unique humanity, which I would love to take.