Book: Want and will. To accept myself, to love life and be happy

It is necessary to do so, not to you ran, and you have it running! To make comments, say something only once (if more, you only drop your credibility in her eyes). Then we must act.

We must learn to be in charge of your life and absolutely freely to teach the children.

But what is fiction? Interesting stories, told in good language, as a variant, the great stories told by brilliant language. They have no answers to the eternal questions of being and nothingness! They do not reveal the meaning of life and not make it.

Somehow, in the us sits firmly in the belief that books can make a person better. Stuck right at the level of the brain. Meanwhile, couldn't find any proof.

Only by investing in the child's time and power, walking, changing diapers, kurai, standing up to him by night, man is able to firmly get attached and love the child. By the way, not necessarily your own.

Not to find out, do not complain, do not blame.
Correct wording: "I don'T LIKE what you do".
The first warning should be the last.
No "I told you!", "we agreed".

In a healthy relationship the dishes, not because "as necessary", but because the wife tired, husband, not posing as a hero, gets up and washes. He really loves her and wants to help. But if she flew, and knows that he is very busy, you would not insist to keep her at the gangway was met. This is not a problem, a taxi will take...

If the boy grew up in an atmosphere of love and respect, was surrounded with care and support, he never lays a hand on the bitch. Pathologically craving for a different kind of bitch - a sign of serious trouble in the relationship with the mother. However, the emotional need is in these relationships says about the problems of both sides.

No spiritual kinship will not save the family-sexual disharmony. Because sex is so important in a relationship. Sex the cornerstone, and he is also in the head, in the same place and shared interests.
And, of course, wonderful if you like them and the same films of Fellini, but by and large after a good sex no matter what she looks - "House 2" and TV series "Give my love" on the channel "Russia-1". But after the failure, the more repeatedly unsuccessful, and his first words will help. Because if people are good in sex, so in some of the main, underlying, basic things they absolutely agree. And this is the most important level at which it is necessary to match the pair.

But it takes another a while, and you suddenly feel that you got all that you don't live your life, everything happens the way you want. You finally notice that it is only doing that to try to adapt to the partner and to avoid sharp corners in contact with them. Meanwhile you tightly covers dissatisfaction with oneself, life, family and its role in the relationship.

In the wild survive only those animals that can feed. If you can not, then you have some psychological problem. And over it should work (instead of looking for husband/wife is richer). A mentally healthy person will always find a use and "food".

It's like any addiction - from time to time you're sure it's love. The situation is changing exactly at the moment when you realize that you just are dependent and weak.

Nobody needs or who do not need myself. And the one who accepts himself as he is, living delicious, wholesome life in spite of all possible problems. Just do not confuse self-love with selfishness. Selfish fixated on their problems, and others around him are not interested, and he who loves himself, kind to all and open to the world. After all, with yourself he's all right.

The worst solitude is to be alone in the crowd.