Book: Tunnel in the sky

Man is the only animal that cannot be tamed. When he's comfortable, he whole years behave peacefully as a cow. But when it suits him not to, he is more dangerous than the leopard. This is especially true for women.

... control - means to be able to live in peace with people you don't like.

Many fear dying earlier than from the real danger.

The best weapon is between the ears, under the scalp, of course, if it's loaded.
(Remember, however, that your best weapon is between the ears and beneath the scalp, and try to use it better.)