Author of quotes: Iris Murdoch. Page 4

People need to process their pain, at least silently, and not to put it in everyone's face.

But the truth is - it can not be divided into pieces, and when you start talking, all popping up.

That's how the dreams that they forget - they contain the seed of oblivion.

It seems that this equation is about to forgive and to be forgiven is not so easy, even when everything seems to be clear.

In the human past cannot be miracles, of redemption, of healing, can't be a transformational change.

Regret, remorse - this is the biggest manifestation of selfishness.

After all, living ties to the past do not, the past is gone forever - it's absolutely clear if you think about it: it no longer exists. There are only emotions that can be manipulated.

When we are talking about a long and scary, what lurks in the brain, any mistake or accident can lead to serious consequences.

When a person's possessed by something, it's so boring. He always says the same thing, goes and goes at once instituted a circle, want to break out of it, want the full, absolute change, and is something impossible.

Woman power will always try to remove another woman from their territory, even if that is not her rival. It turns out almost automatically.

Hilary... you know, there are moments when you knew someone for a long time and suddenly as if by magic it becomes you so near.

- If only I knew why. If I could change something, I would do anything. I would become a different person...
- It's impossible. People can't change. If you refused, no matter how much I change hats, nothing will help.

How awful to crave almost impossible to understand what is achievable, but will never happen.

No need to make unnecessary enemies, even if the whole world annoys you to such an extent that you want to shout.