Author of quotes: Lea Vedeno

About the possibilities and inevitability. How to learn about the boundaries of their capabilities? Often this happens when we first meet the inevitable, when we feel powerless to change anything. Such meetings will change us forever. Someone they make wiser and teach acceptance, someone break, settled in the soul weakness, fear, guilt ...

Surely you have noticed that people are much easier to ask for others and for others than for themselves. Ever since childhood I wondered why so?
Why yet one feels that his intention is not greed, it's easy for him, he is free, able to overcome all obstacles and like is under some kind of protection. But should appear the second bottom, he immediately becomes vulnerable. Or until a man gives with a pure heart without expecting anything in return, of his actions a lot of light, they are truly creative, but is it worth it to start craving more of gratitude and receiving, all the happiness is gone without a trace, he becomes weak and touchy, if not received the expected...

About the value of life and generosity. No one can know in advance how he would behave if over his life loomed the unforgiving rock. Sometimes people think about it. Some say that if you become helpless, it would prefer not to be a burden and will end my life. Others believe that will take care of them relatives, some are afraid to even think about it and avoid talking on such topics. It also happens that a person chooses not to fight the disease, give up, or pretend that nothing is happening.
And if he has relatives, they are in such a situation is very difficult. They are forced to watch the extinction of a beloved person and experience the devastating powerlessness to change anything. Eats them a sense of guilt during the illness of a close, and after his death.
But sometimes, they still manage, albeit briefly, but to snatch him from the clutches of death.

About the tricks of cognition, or what is the basis of our conclusions. Observing the relationships of people, I often notice that to a very large extent they rely on their current beliefs and ideas about anything. Sometimes when I'm faced with a particularly firm conviction and ask why the person thinks so, women often say "I feel that it is so," men ", simply because it is as it is".
Sometimes the situations are altogether absurd, when people can see before my eyes the obvious fact that proves the fallacy of their beliefs, but they stubbornly continue to see what we tuned in to see.

People are much easier to say criticism, not a compliment. Easier to distinguish the flaw and not a virtue.
One day I was deeply struck by the words of Salvador Dali: "If you play at genius you become." So true.
Once I asked my friend and colleague, Shulamit how she manages to achieve such success in working with people, because its patients can sometimes be unbearable.
She replied that, of course, sees all of those qualities in people, but she also looks deeper and sees their potential, what they could become if I chose the way of life in the building.

We believe that a man is as old as he feels. Age is an attitude, not the life of the body.

For me it was a living Testament to how much depends on how we see the world and other people from the States in which we operate. I realized that the deeper contact with ourselves, the less it is affected by the environment, and what is happening around. Here's something to think about. In those days the concept of "freedom" revealed to me new facets...

We can confidently say that people are changing very much under the influence of all sorts of temptations: power, money, fame. They change under the pressure of adversity, difficulties, misfortunes.
But we often, without noticing it, create the conditions which are corrupting other people. Starting with our offspring who for a reward take out the garbage, ending with who we give up power.
You may ask, but how can you know where is the line after which the person runs out will confront the temptation? It's not so easy to calculate, especially if we are talking about big wishes and huge money. And it's even harder when you knew the man decades, and he says, "was not seen" anything like this.
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The first thing to curb the monster in yourself, because if you don't, it certainly will attract like from the outside....

I believe that all life is interconnected and that life is the sort of thing that if you do not live, not to throw out to the world in time, then, even if everything is perfect, it will be dead.
To release in your world right now is born in the soul and heart of the product is extremely important. And remember that only dead is ideal as a monument in the cemetery, but a living, it's not perfect.
Alive - it's choppy, rough, full of dynamics and striving for the realization of energy.
How many untold stories, for fear that someone wouldn't be interested?
How much is not expressed love, because have not found that perfect man who is worthy of her. Not much lived happiness! And the whole abyss escaped lives...

Fear is a spiritual phenomenon, its accommodation and overcoming is a necessary condition for our development. At the time of his overcoming, we gain needed for the next level of development properties.
Overcoming his fear and continuing to act despite his "awe of Heaven", that is, the fear not to carry out the Intent of Heaven, in this process of overcoming, in the soul of man is born of the right quality, and they, in turn, give strength and ability to find the necessary resources for making the changes and adapting to them.

In the modern world people are taught to do what they want, but nobody teaches them about what is the nature of desires, the laws of their development, and ways of intelligent management.

It's natural when things get tough, want to dotage, and to shift the decision to others. But must pay for everything - once a person passes the reins of power, does not need to worry about his soul and the development, loses his freedom - he is spiritually blind, will no longer see a way out even when he is right under his nose.
Partnership to overcome difficulties - more healthy approach. But Oh my God, how great is the temptation to let go and not think about anything else. Just like a beautiful dream about how nice it is "to be a weak woman"...
There are many ways of finding the resources in difficult situations, they have enough in our inner world. Difficulties can push us to find them and become a more developed and Mature. But often, the myths and deep installation prevent us from constructively and for the benefit of his personality and for the development of to undergo the difficulties.

Giving love, don't expect it will come back to you from the same place. Just give it back, let it all go no regrets. At times, she comes to us from a completely different side, where we do not expect at all. By conduct and describing a circle, it always returns his gifts, and even a hundred times more...

... once again clearly realized, love is the main component of abundant thinking. Love in life makes us sighted to the light of grace. Love opens our ears to hear the soul is the essence of what the middle says. Love prompts a sense of proportion and gives insight. It gives answers to questions that don't need to search frantically, they come from the heart.