self-control [Theme] Page 3

Without power it is impossible to gain freedom.

He is proud of his composure and equanimity, and try to stay calm when you are someone the most vulgar place way he stumbles in the door.

The most important thing in life - aging. The ability to move and to stand on the sidelines and then quietly take the chair.

If you do not lose your temper, people recognize you as their stronger: you have enough power to restrain his anger, and they can't say stupid things that you later regret. Anger nothing beats the power in addition to self-control, because it can curb the anger.

Some people are very happy with such equanimity is not agreeing to admit that often owe this ability is not so much strength of character, how well-known sluggishness of temperament.

People come out of themselves, and one day to get back.

The most valuable asset - your self-control.

A good teacher knows that there is feigned indignation and the pretense here is fair game, the teachers weapon, that gun, which he takes disciples; but the true outrage should hide at any cost not to allow them to skillful manipulators to score.

People think that he has the composure, simply because he is indifferent to the many things that bother the other.

Who wish to dominate over the other,
He had feelings to restrain sometimes.

I can't trust a man to control others when he is not able to govern themselves.

It happens that you diligently hold in your hands and think you can. But standing next to you to be someone stronger and more robust, how to give slack and inadvertently allow emotions to carry the flimsy dam artificial peace, erected with so much difficulty.

To be able to say - and not let go of the lips. All to be able to give - and not unclasp her hands. It was a refusal, which <...> is the main driving force of my actions. Force? - Refusal? Yes, because the suppression of energy requires infinitely more effort than its free expression - which does not need effort. <...> That it's difficult to restrain the horse or to let it gallop? And since the horse, which we hold, - we, - what more painful to keep yourself in check or rassuzdat your hand?

Surrender can only be one who owns him. Sometimes that is given to get rid of his own nothingness. You can only give what you have. Become the master of yourself and only then give up.