Susan Forward. Men who hate women and the women who love these men (№ 275338)

This wonderful, generous father in contrast to the angry and tyrannical formed young Jackie a mythologized image of a man. Knowing that she can sometimes bathe in the radiance of the father's love made him cruel attacks even more devastating for Jackie.
The dilemma Jackie was that powerful when her beloved father showed his love, she felt great, but when he was cruel, Jackie felt fear, rejection, confusion.
Married to mark and Jackie faced the same model. <...> As if she neither felt, it was expected that she would remain faithful and loyal to the Brand just as in childhood she had to keep loyalty and loyalty to the father even if he treated Jackie poorly.
Jackie's behavior was based on a powerful settings, the essence of which consisted in the following: YOUR FEELINGS don'T matter, EVEN IF a MAN TREATS YOU BADLY, YOU MUST LOVE IT.