Book: Men who hate women and the women who love these men

Many people today do not know what to expect from relationships and how they lead. The pair rejected the old, rigid, stereotypical role, but don't know how to replace them. Women painfully are puzzled how to react to its newfound freedom without becoming too rigid and harsh. Men concerned with how to be loving and sensitive without losing his masculinity. And those and others have their own ambitions and careers, by choice or because of economic necessity.

In the world there are many wonderful, caring, loving, considerate men who love women, their society and their uniqueness. These men are not afraid of women's intelligence, ambition, professionalism, because they are confident in themselves and their adequacy. They do not need to belittle women to feel good.

There are people in the mood, is impulsive and hot, there are debaters who will never agree with what your saying, but all this does not make them mitogenome. Remember, mesogen is the person who needs to control the woman. It makes it aggressive, it uses threats and criticism, and belittles the woman, it destroys her faith in herself, shaking her inner balance unpredictable swings from tenderness to rage.
You don't have to bring down their newfound understanding mishinova behavior and its consequences to all men. To see in every Mizulina exactly the same as unrealistic and accidentally missed a bad attitude.

If you someone is bad, it does not automatically mean psychological violence against you. Someone discreet, someone quiet, someone is by nature cold or not ready for a relationship and may reject you.

It is important not only to see the bad attitude, but not to stick a label of "mitogen" for every man, with whom you are unhappy.

Despite the poor experience of a lifetime with Jim Rosalind is not closed from the world, became suspicious and went on the defensive. However, many women commit this mistake. They think that it will be safe if you slam your emotional world and will generally avoid any relationship. Real freedom to make a choice, to trust your instincts and know that if something will not work, you will be able to take care of themselves. Suspicion and rejection of communication with another person can give you the illusion of safety, but in reality it is emotional stagnation.

Credibility is the cornerstone of emotional confidence.

She also should not blame yourself for what you chose another psychological aggressor. That's not the problem. To stay with him and endure the violence for years - that's a problem!

Old patterns do not disappear overnight. Change is always two steps forward and one step back.

Why am I apologizing to him? He's acting like an idiot, not me!

Children have outstanding flexibility and conformability. If their mom is happy and confident, the child of this just fine.

One of the great benefits of finding yourself in the fact that it gives you a chance to erase the negative role models and messages received by your children. Women, having spent many years in relationship psychological abuse often Express deep concern, as if not to grow from misogynes sons, and daughters - future victims. I explain to these mothers that no matter how many of their children, as soon as misogyny vicious circle is open and in the behavior of the mother had a radical change, all the children have learned about the relationship between men and women, then will change too.
Courage women to rebuild their lives and return to her the things that defined her identity, becomes an important role example for both sons and daughters. <...> So the most important teacher for your children, your new, confident behavior.

We all have a fundamental desire to approach another person and find a pair. However, being part of a couple does not mean to limit their world or lose themselves the most.

Many women experience genuine surprise, as this increases their self-esteem and interest in life by expanding horizons and gaining greater financial independence. <...> For every woman it is important to see that the more it moves in your own life, regardless of the partner, the better her health is, the less she is afraid of life change. Clearly, all this does not detract or disavows the joy of being with another person.