Book: Men who hate women and the women who love these men. Page 4

When verbal aggression is not enough to vent anger, the anger is buried alive. Unfortunately, if such a strong emotion, like anger, does not get a normal expression, it does not disappear. She finds another way. For Jackie, as with other children with whom mistreated, this exit was herself.
Jackie began to direct their angry feelings like a boomerang on the floor. She began to feel guilty for experiencing such strong and forbidden emotions and convinced myself that she feels them because she is just awful. Thus, the anger turned into hatred.
Then Jackie tried to atone for their angry emotions by forming a corresponding set of actions designed to prove to everyone including her that she is really good and deserves love, and, most importantly, not angry. She became hyperostosis, hyperprolactinaemia and submissively. This is taught many of the girls. Then they carry formed in childhood behaviors into adulthood.
The problem with this method of protection from wrath is the formation of a vicious circle. The more a girl is inferior to the more ignored her feelings and needs, the more her anger and the more reasonable it becomes to cope with this anger. This wheel revolves every child who were abused.