attachment [Theme]
"Love does not exist. She's simply not there. Everything disappears, all feelings, absolutely everything! There is affection, pity, duty, but love is a very vague concept.”
Quote Explanation: Quote about love that is not there. This is a concept and it can be challenged.
If we carefully consider the feelings of intense lust or anger, we can see that the root of these experiences lies in our partial attitude towards the object towards which they are directed. And if we continue this consideration at a deeper level, we will find that at the core of all this is our passionate attachment to our sense of self, or our ego.
Reading aloud before bed allows dad and sons to spend time together and builds a strong bond with each other. It also has a positive effect on the relationship between fathers and daughters
It seems to me that you are too closed and have completely lost faith in people. You can’t, you see, put all your affection into a dog. Your life is meager, hegemon...
How does a narcissist create addiction in an intimate partner? He idealizes it and then allows the intimate partner to form an emotional attachment to the idealized image of himself. So it's just a form of self-love. Therefore, when an intimate partner falls in love with a narcissist, he does not fall in love with the narcissist, because the narcissist is unknowable. A narcissist is simply a quantity of something that one cannot fall in love with. The intimate partner falls in love with the image idealized by the narcissist. The narcissist gives access to an idealized image and then allows one to be in contact with his idealization and this is excellent. You just fall in love with yourself.
Quote Explanation: Paracosm is a detailed imaginary world. It is believed that paracosms, as a rule, originate in childhood and have one or multiple creators.
The main thing for a human being is a safe and lasting attachment, which people ignorant of science call love.
Making friends, smiling at them and laughing with them is a waste of time. Love and affection cloud the consciousness, turning a warrior into a weakling, unable to protect either himself or those around him. An open heart is an easy target that can easily be wounded. Trust is the most dangerous weapon, and if you take possession of it, you can achieve an easy victory.
And now in my mind his image is so vivid that it hurts my eyes.
He can educate through deprivation and train. Today
It is not the thoughts themselves, but our attachment to thoughts that causes suffering. Attachment to a thought means an unconditional belief that it is true. Faith itself is a thought to which we are attached, as a rule, for years.
When you cling to material objects, they melt like ice and flow out between your fingers.
From attachment comes desire, from desire comes anger.
In order to realize the loss, sachala needs to experience sincere affection.
Initially, narcissists may shower their victims with love and attention. However, the moment the victim deviates from the narcissist's desired behavior, that attachment ceases immediately. The victim is then blamed for not paying enough attention to her, further exacerbating the cycle of guilt and manipulation.
I'm there, which means that everyone else is an asshole.
