Book: Intimacy. Trust in yourself and to another. Page 1



They communicate because they are afraid that if they failed to communicate, it will fall into loneliness and lost, therefore they again and again jump into a relationship.
Any relationship is better than no relationship; even hostility acceptable; at least, the person feels occupied.
Your so-called love is nothing but a kind of enmity, a polite way to quarrel, to fight, to dominate, a civilized way of torturing each other.
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Love is a state of consciousness when you're happy, when your being is dancing. Something starts vibrating, radiating, from the center; something starts pulsating around you.
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Love begins with loving yourself. Don't be proud, be full of yourself are two different things. Don't be a Narcissus, don't be obsessed with yourself -- but a natural self - love is mandatory, the main phenomenon. Only then, from it, you can love someone else.
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One single moment of authenticity is better than a whole life of falsehood.
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No relationship can truly grow if you don't give yourself will. If you continue to Dodge, to protect themselves and to defend themselves, only meet the person, and the essential centers remain alone. Then it communicates only the mask, not you. When there is such a thing, in a relationship there are four people, not two. Two false personalities continue to meet, and two of these individuals remain in separate worlds.
<...> It is better to leave and be real than to be fake together because it will never bring satisfaction. It will never create blessings. You will remain hungry and thirsting and will continue to be dragged on life, simply hoping for a miracle.
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If you can learn from defeats love, it is to become more aware, become more meditative. Under meditation I mean the ability to be happy alone. Very few people are able to be blissful for no reason - just sitting in silence and feeling the bliss! Others think they were crazy because the idea of happiness is that it has to come from someone else.
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