Book: The ninth rule of the Magician, or the Fire chain

If you think that's right, you must act as you see fit. The number of those who disagree with you, can't change the facts, and you have to find these facts. And to find them, you need to act. But not for the pleasure of others, not in order to satisfy someone, even very close to you.
You don't have to fit someone else's expectations - only their own.

Others may to offer your beloved something that they believe will bring them good; they have the right to expect that your loved one follow their advice. However, ultimately, everyone is responsible for his life, he makes choices and takes responsibility for the results of that choice.

Faith in prednachertano fate denies free will, turns him into a slave of circumstances, makes the submissive plaything of external forces.

Overconfidence leads to mistakes.

Love is when your whole life is shared with another person. When you love someone, you always believe that he is the most wonderful person in the world. It is your profound recognition of the value of this man, and this man is a reflection of what you most value in life. True love is the greatest value that only can give life.

Freedom is difficult to maintain and easy to lose. For this it is sufficient voluntary indifference.

Not sosredotochimsya on what you see, what has been done. Watch why this happened and what else might happen.