Book: How to talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere

Time is money. Do not abuse your interlocutors and listeners.

The principle of "what if something happens" is good, but in moderation.

What's wrong with a good ethnic humor? What could be more fun good Jewish joke, unless of ridicule and stupid fanaticism? Or Irish joke? Or Italian? Or the Negro?

Consider in advance what you want to say. I know it seems trivial, but often to the words-"dummy" has to resort due to the fact that, when he reached the middle of the phrase, you can't figure out how to finish it. I'm not saying that you should write to the head of his whole monologue before you open your mouth, but uttering the first phrase, you can consider the next and so on. If it seems difficult, still try to do so: you will see that there is nothing difficult really, no. Our brain is quite capable of doing two things at once. Little training - and it will seem quite natural.

If you just pay attention to what the words roll off you tongue, it can give a great effect. You will see how many times you've started and abandoned halfway a particular phrase, how many times have returned to what has been said and how many "uh" cluttering up your speech.

In our speech sneak "Akane and mekane", "uh" and "m-m-m". Let them into your speech, and you have no call ability to coherently Express their thoughts.

Sometimes in our speech, sneak up words and sounds that adds nothing to what we want to convey to the interlocutor. They just clutter it, and hence the source is harder to understand us. These words-"dummy" - the same thing, that pesky Styrofoam balls in packaging boxes: they fill the empty space. Why do people use these words? Because it is the crutches - language crutches. They are easy to draw when you lack the word, but if you don't learn to do without them, your speech will always limp.
The undisputed leader in this area - "you know" ("know").

Our age of fast mass communication generates a continuous epidemic of fashionable words and phrases. These buzzwords come to light thanks to the massive Hobbies, events, and individuals and instantly turns into worn-out cliches. Sometimes with their help you can easily get in touch with someone, but if you will often repeat it, you will be deemed narrow-minded man who does not know how to Express their thoughts.

People believe what vysokoopasnye words they use, the more important seems the subject of their speech and themselves. Today, people often "overlook" items instead of "inspect" or to see. Some not enough just to say that people or things are equal to each other; they say "equivalent."

Residents of new York threats and dangers lurk at every corner.

Humor in conversation is no less important than in other situations, and sometimes it requires much more. When I say it, one of my main rules is: "Never be too serious too long." The same is probably more true to the conversation.
However, humor should not be forced. The best humorists and comedians know and consider it.

Masters of conversation is very curious. Thanks to the listening skills they learn something new and expand your horizons.

If you really love your job and your enthusiasm is passed to the people with whom you are talking, your chances of success grow.

If you are ever invited to speak at the funeral. Don't forget: people didn't come here to listen to you. They came here for the same thing and you grieve the passing of a loved one. Show your respect and warm feelings for the deceased. Show compassion to his family. Be brief. It will not hurt and a little humor.