Book: All the girls are snowflakes, and boys are clowns

Women without end wondering, "Why did He change?", but they often forget to ask yourself why would I change? Not often and not every relationship, but it happens with everyone. A foreign affair is always a disaster, and his own perceived easier. If the main engine of male adultery is the search for something new, the girls have several different reasons for infidelity. Women are much easier to get sucked into the story, at least technically don't even need to show much activity, because usually hunt at her. Just enough to relax, and she immediately gets a juicy offer. Perhaps the most obvious option - "went to visit". Went to the cottage with a big company or slept over at friends after a party, next was a cute guy, and then it somehow in itself. Especially if to drink a little bit. Geisha, drunk sake, a Jasper vase, its not fluent, as one would say the Japanese.

Generally, hard-nosed, fear: when one approaches the world with a ready template, it is not necessary to squeeze. Usually some important part of your body will still stick out, and cut them off with garden scissors you don't want.

... some men are trying to seduce you insulting to the intelligence way.

Behind all this lies rarely worth some terrible deceit. Often only the fear of loss or loneliness. The woman is afraid that nobody else will find.

To know the eternal alone easy - even if he has a family with a bunch of kids, he's always tragically free. What would loving people surrounded him either, no matter how strong his connection, he is ready to complain of the lack of understanding of others, emptiness of heart and total loneliness.

Opinion was divided when I came to the General concept of the relations. Relatively speaking, there are female partners and there are women catalysts. In the first case, there will be a lot of friendship, cooperation and mutual development. And the second woman is more of a Muse, revealing to the man a potential of becoming a tool and a prize at the same time. <...> Also, I've heard a theory about people-the key: when you have something like a table with lots of drawers, and other people for your keys. Man the more valuable, the more of your boxes he is able to open - and that means, the brighter you will be able to use it to manifest itself. Someone is able to find caches, which you did not know existed. There are people-picks, creeping back to where they were not expecting. There are people-crowbars that can only expand and plunder.