Book: Summerhill - education freedom
Punishment always represents the act of hatred. In the act of punishment the teacher or parent hates the child and the child understands it.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:38
The child whom force to submit, will Express their hatred to the power, purposely irritating parents. And true, the bad behavior of children mostly is a clear proof of wrong treatment. Any normal child will accept parental teaching, if the family is love. If the family lives hatred, the child either does not hear any arguments, or perceives everything negatively: destroys, lies and is insolent.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:38
Strict discipline in the family is always a projection hatred to itself.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:38
Delusion causes us to believe that any member of the family is the protector and leader to all who are under it.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:38
The Church hammered us the lie that man is born in sin and requires redemption.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
If a child lies, he or you is afraid, or you copies. At false parents false children grow up. If you want to hear from their child the truth, do not lie to him!
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
Children don't like so much how much I want to be loved. For every child adult approval means love, disapproval of the hate.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
It is the hatred accumulated by parents does the child difficult, in the same way as the hatred poured in society creates a problem of offenders.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
Training is necessary for children much less, than love and understanding. To be naturally good, they need support and freedom. And only the strong and loving parent can give the child the freedom to be good.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
Freedom means the right to do whatever you want, if only not to violate the freedom of others.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
When there is no pressure of fear and discipline, children do not show aggression.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
It is the difference between freedom and permissiveness, and can not grasp a lot of parents. In a strict, severe family children have no rights, in the spoiled family they have rights for everything. Good that family, in which children and adults equal rights.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
There are no difficult children, there are only difficult parents. Better to say that there is simply difficult mankind.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
Difficult child is the child crushed by requirements of cleanliness and suppression of sexuality. Adults take for granted that the child needs to learn to behave so that life of adults was quieter.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37
The tragedy of man is that his character, as the character of the dog, gives in to formation. You can't shape the character of a cat - animal, which is above the dog.
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MegaMozg 02-01-2017 / 23:37