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ᅠ Relationships between people often make their way through such wilds that it is impossible to predict every fork. There's a lot to worry about. How is there something to be afraid of on the roads: is there little that will come to mind for another driver? But you still don't give up the car. Does this indicate that you unconditionally believe the people behind the wheel? Hardly. You only monitor the scale of your vigilance, physical condition, dexterity and speed of reaction. And so it is, Jeffrey. You can only control yourself. If I want to betray you vilely, I will betray you, and you will not interfere with it in any way. If I decide to change with a young man from the bar - I will change, coming up with a million excuses in the list of excuses for my act. And this will be solely my responsibility, even if you forget to give gifts for anniversaries and return home late. Understand? In this matter, nothing depends on you. Such a feeling is disgusting, I know it very well, because your actions do not obey me, therefore, in the same limbo. But she agrees with clinical psychologist Cloud Henry: "When one spouse dominates the other, love does not reach true depth and completeness, because in such a marriage there is no personal freedom." Here's the challenge: giving freedom. Not to control, not to require strict adherence to the plan outlined by one partner. Conduct an open dialogue. Don't just rattle what we'll do on the weekend or what kind of mat is in front of the door... I touched my palm to his forehead, which made me look at myself. "And this," my hand moved into the area of his heart. I don't want to live with you for a year or anything else and then say with horror, "I have no idea what kind of man is lying next to me in bed. What is he thinking? What does he care about? What is he afraid of? And - Oh my God! - what does he expect of me?!" You and I should have the right to express our opinions freely, because if we brush him off, love will wither, and fear will take its place.