Movie: Payback (The Accountant)

Now, remember. No matter they like you or not. They're scared of you. You're different. Sooner or later this causes fear in people. You are a victim or not? The choice is yours.
Well here's what it is. They don't like you, they don't dislike you. They're afraid of you.You're different. Sooner or later, different scares people. Victim or not? Make a decision.

The world is not the friendliest place, but in it he [the son] needs to learn to live.
The world is not a friendly place and that's where he needs to learn to live.

In our country, 68 normal children have one child with diagnosis of autism. But if you can forget for a minute that doctors and numerous neurotypic said about your son... What if we're wrong? What if we incorrectly assess the mental abilities of autistic children? Your son is not worse than the others, he's different. Expectations that you impose on his future may eventually be realized. Perhaps he marries, he will have children it will be to provide for themselves. Maybe not. But I assure you, if we will focus on the expectations of the external world in relation to our children, they will stay here, because the expectations of these small. Perhaps the ability of your son much more than we think. Perhaps, it is possible that he just doesn't know how to show it. Or... we have not yet learned to see.
1 in 68 children in this country are diagnosed with a form of autism. But if you can put aside for a moment what your pediatrician and all the other NT''s have said about your son... What if we're wrong? What if we've been using the wrong tests to quantify intelligence in children with autism? Your son's not less-than. He's different. Now, your expectations for your son may change over time, they might include marriage, children, self-sufficiency. They might not. But I guarantee you, if we let the world set expectations for our children, they'll start low, and they'll stay there. And maybe... Just maybe... He doesn't understand how to tell us. Or... we haven't yet learned how to listen.

You like puzzles, Raymond king?
Do you like puzzles, Raymond King?

My husband is in the army, and therefore so are we.
My husband's in the Army, which means we all are.

Solomon Grundy,
Monday born
Tuesday baptized
on Wednesday was married,
in Thursday's crippled,
on Friday ill
on Saturday died,
on Sunday funeral,
and life has flown,
consider, for a week.
Solomon Grundy,
Born on a Monday
Christened on Tuesday,
Married on Wednesday,
Ill on Thursday,
Worse on Friday,
Died on Saturday,
Buried on Sunday,
That was the end
Of Solomon Grundy.

Life is a series of choices, and they are all as old as the world. The oldest principle is that you either become a victim or fight back.
The second principle is loyalty. Family above all, and in joy and in sorrow.