Author of quotes: Steve Biddulph

In today's world it is time to welcome a person of all shapes and sizes.

All the troubles that are parents in the form of nightmares (teenage adventurism, alcohol, drugs, crime), come from the fact that we do not find channels for splash teenage thirst for glory and heroism. The boys look at adult world and do not see anything that they would like to believe or participate. Even their protest is packaged and offered as a commodity by advertisers and the music industry.

Porn terrible in themselves. A typical porn film initially silly - some very nasty people are involved solely in the satisfaction of his animal lust. Where films are imbued with tenderness, sensuality, playful and stimulating passion, films in which people communicate experience to one another with solemn feelings? Movies that could teach teenagers to love?

Even adult men are often mistaken. Once the marriage Agency had to advise an old man who showed excessive zeal in sexual relations with candidates supplied by the Agency. As it turned out, the man itself is very cultural and a serious man (two years ago widowed), have studied the latest editions of the magazine "cosmopolitan" to know that like modern women, and behaved accordingly!

In any case it is impossible to justify male aggression riot of hormones. But it is vital to separate incentive to violence from a sexual stimulus. You cannot create and show films, which combine sex and violence. Scenarios of low-grade film industry, built on the rape and subsequent revenge, give a distorted view of reality.

And, according to historians, many great political figures (e.g., President Kennedy) had a very high sexual potential, which often lead to very tragic consequences. (Indeed, it is difficult to lead the country, when we are constantly thinking about how to curb your sexual desire.)

Traditions we have inherited from the society of hunters and gatherers, unfortunately, still quite strong. In third world countries (where people are engaged mainly in agriculture), men often do not work so hard as women. Probably they are still waiting for the chance to hunt the beast, or to fight with the enemy!

The gathering developed a particular sensitivity of the fingers, which in women was much higher than that of men. Women's work requires caution, constant attention to detail while hunting was necessary vigor and even self-sacrifice. In the course of evolution the female body diminished in size, but becomes more resilient. The male body was better adapted to a sudden strong surge, but it could knock even a slight cold or an ingrown nail!

Sex involves mutual respect and enjoyment of each other. It is an integral part of love, not a tool.

We all want our boys at the sight of a beautiful woman is not only celebrated her visual appeal, but think of it as the man endowed with senses. And pornography, unfortunately, kills the woman personality.

Just as love can mean something more than the satisfaction of physical needs, fingering for young people. is the ability to pleasure and to better know themselves. Orgasm (which, when Masturbation is accomplished in a relaxed state of the brain) is a real experience of spiritual knowledge. For a few seconds your body like lost in the Universe, and you take the power of the forces of nature. Amazingly, all this is achievable and is at arm's length.
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It happens that men prefer masturbating with porn to sex with a partner. Pictures are not binding, and for timid and shy men they are saved.

Treating children with warmth and attention, you encourage them immune to the desire to cause pain and suffering to others.

In recent years, unfortunately, is practiced very unhealthy approach to the sexualization of children. This is reflected in the propaganda style of "sexy" clothing, commercials and film. Children only lose from this. Do not be tempted to identify children's friendships with romantic relationships ("It's your girlfriend you're so cute!"), especially if your children are five years old!

By the way, on this stage [adolescence] is the moral of "thugs". ("If I can not catch up with the girls, I have to control them mentally.") Largely it is encouraged girlish magazines and style soft porn, cultivated in music videos that are played on TV channels. The message is "look but don't touch" is a cynical mockery. She creates a strong sexual charge, mixed with anger. If, moreover, the boy has little chance to communicate with real girls, he begins to fantasize about how to control the female gender and dominate him. Their attitude to women and the ability to chat with girls on equal terms, only worse.