Author of quotes: Buy Bash

The same attempts to raise the perfect child through books and blogs can at the same percentage make children better or to ruin it completely. Education does not generate children. So you should pay attention to what is outside of the family, wrote Judith rich Harris. As children almost always focus on peers, not parents. But in the desire to make kids better and more successful tempered personality! And if we take the problem of fathers and children, we find that "fathers" are not always are engaged in socializing the child in the child's best interests. The desire to give it in all the clubs and pump in full in the topic of business comes from the interests of "fathers". Even the psycholinguists often argue about heredity and environment "fathers and children". For example interesting is the fact that the focus person repeats the accent of his childhood friends, not parents. But the heritability of intelligence increases with age and people gradually turning into their parents. The influences are almost the same and heredity and individual environment, but beyond that is a coincidence. If identical twins raised separately are very similar, regardless of the environment, they can be different, each will have a unique experience.

"I'll treat others like they are to me" - we often hear this phrase. But such an approach is fundamentally not true and doesn't even work. Because man always treats others as about yourself. If I criticize your actions, I will focus on the "wrong actions" of others. If I don't like its appearance, I will have to see the flaws.

The problem of sexual dysfunction most often lies in the head and there is frequent denial of sex. Produced to offer sex - refusal. And to risk once again and to hear "no, leave me alone, my head hurts" not every man would want. Therefore cease to take the initiative, and the wife then complains to her friends: "He didn't want me anymore".

If I invite the girl to come over tonight to watch a movie and drink a glass of wine, and she refuses, I know she turned down my offer for sex. However, she also understands that refused to have sex, not from the film. But if she knows that I know too, that she rejected my sexual initiative? She might think I think she can give me the first night or just think that a fool. And I can assume that she did not understand my hint. In this picture there is no common knowledge, so nobody refused to have sex and we can maintain a semblance of friendship. What if I said straight and she just said, then what kind of friendship can there be? In the first case it is possible to justify the joke in the second to take the words back will not work and the relationship a bit or does go bad.

Many personality traits and dispositions are inherited, such as lying, stealing, fighting, vandalism. But are manifested differently depending on the external environment. It is foolish to sit on the Apple tree seed and expect to grow juicy peaches, and even more foolish to sit and wait for the seedling gooseberry, if in the land of nothing.

We don't like when other people change, or rather change their pattern of behavior. So we have to rebuild the image of this man in the head. They say that the true impression about a person first. And this is because we create an initial image which then compares the modified images. And it turns out that the primary is always "real" and at the same time deceptive, so how long is not saved. I always try to first put yourself in a favorable light, that's why often people want to see me "real" and not as open after. Although in the beginning from the real me nothing...

I hereby can only be for himself. For other people, I may be the only way in their mind. They give it feelings, emotions and soul. And all this is done on the basis of the data that is in them. So I'm all for "real" in its own way. Hence the expression that we see in others only what is in ourselves.

Love is important part of our lives. And do not ask us: "what is love, if not considered sexual attraction?". Everything in our life is dual and has two sides of the same coin. Love in relationships is the desire to give selflessly to. But, in addition to relationship, love can be to your business when you do it, even for free, but having a blast. The theme of love at the same time complex and easy, but I know for sure is to put an end to this topic. She was popular thousands of years ago, and remains popular through thousands of years. The authors will change, the theme remains.

Don't be afraid to open up a new world, visit new places, do new stuff and meet new and unknown. Life on the couch, though in peace and security, is not life.

Harmonious can be considered the man who is harmoniously developed in all spheres of life, without paying any special attention to only one area. You might think that it is wrong not to have priority in your life and you will be right. But that's a little harsh to single out any one area against the other is impossible. You can highlight, but it does not have to suffer the rest of the sphere.

Charisma is impossible to develop any trainings and techniques. Charisma is impossible to develop. Striking statement, isn't it? The fact that each of us has charisma. And the only thing to do is to give her to appear, do not stop her to be, and to obscure the guise of "a La what I'm charismatic". Charisma - this is your true person, sincere, no masks, kind and bright. Everything else is just tinsel. Think about every word before saying. Preuvelicheniya, lies and retelling of rumors is disrespectful to yourself and others.

Allow yourself to make mistakes. The desire to make everything good and right will lead to severe emotional stress, if the action does not disappoint.

We are all different with cockroaches and are not required to meet the expectations of others. Be independent and self-sufficient, calm, emotionally restrained and concentrated.