SelfPub: If your child really ...

If your child really is the meaning of life for you, then your life is meaningless. Any relationship between people, where one person becomes the meaning of another person's life, lead to the psychological scenario "master - slave" or "I am a lover", where a woman begins to fulfill all the whims and whims of her child. Both the one and the other option make a person cease to be independent. He suppresses the initiative in the child, cultivating in him irresponsibility and helplessness. And then you come to the age of 40, and we all cry here together that your child is 20 years old, and he does not understand at all what he wants in life ... he does not want anything. This is how these are the consequences of the fact that someone is the meaning of someone else's life.