Book: Spring for the traps

... Everything that man does is the thing. It's not business, it's work. Work, too, is different, but every job is the insertion of work into something for the sake of obtaining the result. Human relationships are not born and are not supported by themselves, out of nothing, they are the result of a certain work, moral, intellectual, emotional. Even physical... We invest physical labor to care for the man, buy him food, to cook, to wash, to clean, to heal when it hurts, if you understand that it not will be to build relationships. Isn't it the job? And to forgive, to tolerate faults and weaknesses? Easy, or what? Work too, but still is difficult. And worry, to spend the nerves? And take the time to spend hours to listen to something that you're not very interested and not annoyed? Also the work. But without all that work will not be relations.

Most people think that even a well-known truth applies to anyone, not just themselves.

The man who does not love himself, cannot love others. He basically can not love. Don't know how. After all, what is loving yourself? It means to tell yourself: I am what I am, with all their advantages, faults and quirks and I love myself, so that I take myself. If the person knows how to treat himself, he is exactly the same will apply to others, that is, to accept them for who they are and love them the way and not try to remake himself on his own understanding.

I can't regret what has been and gone. I can somehow relate to the past, good or bad, but regret is stupid. Regret is unhelpful, out of a sense of regret can not create anything useful. To the past should be treated with gratitude, because it gave me some experience from which I learn lessons and draw conclusions. Even if the experience is very bitter and heavy, it will still learn, get smarter, and for that he thanks a lot.

You know how to love and care for those who don't like you. It's not everyone. The majority of people aspire to guaranteed mutual love, to love simply, without expectation of return feeling, few people can and want to.

A guest in the house - it is always good if properly treated.

Large spaces restrict the freedom (...) it seems that a lot of places, and all in plain sight. When a lot of closed spaces, more freedom.

No fall can't last forever, sooner or later you reach the bottom of the abyss and dies or trying to get out.

Just before death comes an understanding of the futility and worthlessness of effort that I spend my life.

The police in our country don't like, so the police also difficult to love people.

... the ability to love a man regardless of how he treats you, it is a sign of great emotional strength. People are weak inherently hostile, they know they are weak, so I try to limit the possibility of a strike on its own so initially you see all of the enemies and get closer with those who are guaranteed not to hurt them, won't offend, not to humiliate, insult. A strong man fears nothing, he knows that he will make any impact, so it can afford to love everyone. Well, maybe not love, but a nice treat. He doesn't need guarantees of otvetnoi.

Life really is cyclical, and at each stage of man is inevitably on the point of the previous revolution, where something happened. Along the spiral path seems long and you and every step removed from that point, and you already feel like you're far away, but there comes a point when the distance is reduced, you on that point, just a millimeter away from her and the evil that you've left, reaches out and pulls you in. And you realize that it is not a spiral at all, and a coiled spring. Spring for the mousetrap, you're self-driven.