Book: The Big Book of Psychology: Children and Family

Screaming as the highest form of displaying anger is normal. It's not normal for anger to be a chronic emotion. And here it is necessary to understand and help yourself.
There can be no excuse: "I have an extreme form - 274 times a day"

The child is not a puppy (although, maybe, on the contrary, has a lot in common with him?). And if you yell at him endlessly, beat him and express dissatisfaction with him, then in return you will get an angry person. After all, any love, even absolute, can be killed if you wish.

A family is something that cannot be built for one person around him.

Start and end your day with a kind word to your husband. After all, how often they become victims of our fatigue and bad mood! He came in the evening and was already guilty that he had not guessed to buy bread, his wife was exhausted, the children were crying. But did he deserve reproaches? Maybe meet in a different way: "Hello, dear, I'm tired as I don't know who, let's talk, hug."

A great way to stop a verbal skirmish is to move on to "you", as in pre-revolutionary Russia.

Set up conversation rituals. If you don't know what to talk about, start with the "five joys of the day." That helps a lot.

No family values will arise until there is mutual respect and partnership. And it does not consist in who earned how much, but in the fact that pain and sadness, worries and joys of a loved one are important to you. And this cannot be unilateral.