Mary Faris. (№ 398531)

In the community of the mountain people - Khevsurs - the girl was married only when she was fully able to provide for themselves.
7 years old, she was taught needlework. At 14 she could feed themselves on the income from the sale of its products.
And about marriage wondered when she had equity.
The first years of married life the woman is fed and clothed himself with his own money. Only when I realized that with her husband they "get along", the farm has become a joint.
I was not surprised when in the notes of the ethnographers found that Khevsurs were the strongest marriages (divorce was allowed).
Where was this wisdom, and why now "living well" that is living on other people's money?