Book: Five languages of love
Manner of speaking is extremely important. In ancient times a wise man said: "a Soft word pacifies anger." Your husband is annoyed, he gets excited, he is harsh. If you choose love, you will respond in kind. You will take these words simply as information about his feelings. You'll hear how he perceives what happened, why he hurt. You try to stand in his place and look at things from his perspective. And then gently, kindly Express your point of view. If you do wrong, you admit it and apologize. If he just misinterpreted your behavior, you will be able to explain it to him. You try to understand him and to make peace, you will not defend your opinion as the only right one. This is Mature love - love to which we aspire if we want to grow in marriage.
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MegaMozg 07-05-2020 / 01:03
If we want to learn, we can.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 17:05
Lovers lose interest in everything except the object of love. Because we call love an obsession.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 17:04
Few of us know how to listen. We are much better at talking.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 17:03
Give advice but only when asked, and certainly not a patronising tone.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 17:02
The dream of "eternal happiness" crashed on the harsh reality. I heard again and again: "the Love is gone. There was nothing left. We used to be so close and now... We're bad together. We're not right for each other".
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 16:04
When you require, you - the tyrant <...> Please leave a choice.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 16:03
Those who love the parent did not know the language of love is formed too. But it is not quite correct. They are like illiterate children with a poor vocabulary.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 16:02
True love can not be born, until you die love.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 15:06
Some believe that spending time together, but actually just live under the same roof. They're there: in the same house at the same time, but they are not together.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 15:05
In love, you have to speak and understand the language of someone you love.
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MegaMozg 14-08-2018 / 15:03
If falling in love, and we are pursuing some purpose, is to escape from loneliness and, perhaps, to do away with him forever, marrying.
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MegaMozg 16-01-2017 / 08:58
How to live well in a house where everyone knows how to Express his love to another.
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MegaMozg 11-01-2017 / 12:31
When I love, I don't have no end to think about yourself. After all, I'm fairly confident. And I'm free to do something else.
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MegaMozg 11-01-2017 / 12:31
"I feel that my wife loves me when we are together doing something we both love. Then we talk with each other. It's like we're Dating again". For people whose native language is time, this is the normal response. The main thing for them to be together, to do something together and give each other attention.
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MegaMozg 11-01-2017 / 12:31
